Thursday, 5 May 2011

Color is life

Have you ever thought of imagining a life without colors? It will not be less than a nightmare.
Life without colors would be so monotonous and boring! No colors that means no life, no energy, no thrill! Colors add beauty to every object in this world. And things which dont have any colors, we would never wish to see it again again as they'l be nothing to watch and praise!

Colors play such a big role in showing our emotions. They are directly associated with human psychology and have various affects. Absence of color would turn out in dark. And we dont really want darkness around. Do we? We get scared of dark, but dont realize the light and energy which colors adds to our lives.

MEDIA IN OUR LIVES

Hello! We all know what a big part media plays in daily lives. But that doesn’t mean it is always helpful for us. It is equally good and bad. Media is playing a major role in our lives. The media has created awareness around the whole country. Media has helped in telling people about new technologies, new shows, campaigns, fashion, music, movies, news, games, vehicles, other countries, their cultures and so much more. But along with all that it has changed people’s cultural views. Just because some stuff is aired on the TV or Radio people start believing it and doing it in their lives. Changing your way of living and opinions because of the media is not good for you, your children, your culture, your country or your religion. So you should not let the media take over your life. It is supposed to be helpful not bad for you to accept.

Urdu VS. English Language

One can only imagine how vast this word this. There are so many different languages spoken all around the globe but what we take pride in speaking is English.
No matter what, where you belong from and what you feel ease in speaking, you are forced to know english, which is also necessary to some extent. But one should not feel ashamed of his national language, talking about we pakistanis, we always want to be get noticed speaking english and feels complete pride in it. We dont realize that there is no comparison between urdu and english. These two are completey contrasting languages and have marked their importance and value in history. Urdu has got such rich history in poetry and prose.
Another thing I would make clear here that urdu is a far more difficult language compared to english. What we speak in our daily lives is certainly not the correct urdu, its rather a mixture of english and urdu with a touch of burgernes in it.

LIFE OF POOR AND RICH MAN

Everyday we see so many people around. Some are poor and some are rich. Apparenty it all seems very normal to us but if we try to compare these two classes of rich and poor people, we get to know the about those petty things which a poor misses in his life and those tirings nights which rich people dont get to spend!


There is big contrast in both lifes. Poor doesnt know what it feels to sleep in an airconditioned room, they never enjoyed a long drive on mercedes. There kids dont know how the cadbury tastes..
Rich are blessed with such luxuries and poor struggles all his life to manage to get a daily bread for his family! 


Thats the difference between a life of a poor and of rich. Rich people dont realize what they are blessed with where they should understand this and be grateful to their God for not adding them in the poors list. They should in fact understand the pain and incompletenes of a poor man.

INTERNATIONAL AND TRADITIONAL MUSIC


                           INTERNATIONAL AND TRADITIONAL MUSIC

By compassion over the recent year people like to listen the music. In this mechanical era almost works are done by the machine, people just sit in front of machine and doing their work, but at another sight they also listening the songs for enjoyment and comfort. Music depends on different types of instruments and one or more singer. Nowadays international music is getting zealous and getting popular all over the world but on the other side we see over old traditional music is getting down and elicit from the people minds.
In my opinion people have to know there traditional music because traditional music is in their generation. In Pakistan people do not like to listen their traditional music but in over neighbors country specially india people are highly involves in their traditional music they sing there Bhajan early in the morning and many more Indian are always touch with their traditional music there is a example I would like to share here, one day I went to my Pakistani friend party I saw there the Pakistani singer is not singing the songs of over traditional they singing international songs and people ate dancing on music at the same time singer taking rest and they start F.M on F.M radio suddenly a traditional songs are start ringing and I saw on that hue and cry all the people getting bored and I feel so bad because there is no one who know there cultural dance. If traditional music is also teach in school or different institute so that is god for the people.
By having all details people have to reorganization there traditional music and teach from the other and giving much important on over life’s and also enjoy it in there occasions.    

Hinduism vs. Christianity: One destination but different paths.

Religion is the connection between God and human beings. Religion is considered as a way through which we can reach to god .In my opinion there are many ways to reach God’s message but the destination is same in all the religion.
Hinduism and Christianity can be distinguished on the sources of Bible. Bible is the main sources of the Christians which provide them principle and values where as in Hinduism the source of doctrine is Bhagvangita which they feel is provided by God for mankind. In Addition , Hinduism gives rise to other religion of other western world example Judaism and Islam on the other hand Christianity gives rise to other religions of  the western world as Jainism , Buddhism and Sikhism.
Hinduism and Christianity are different in organizational structure Hinduism goes in temple for their worship, which gather people from different places to a platform and generate the feeling of equality whereas Christians goes to churches for performing their ritual and practices. The religious in contras, Christians have pope in the churches who guide the religion of other people.
In Conclusion, two religion Hinduism and Christianity can be discriminated on the basis of sources of doctrine, organizational structure and perception of creation. Although the two religion discussed above have different values, principle and follow different, the two religion have to reach at the same place as all the other religion of the world.

Authoritative vs. authoritarian parents

Child academic achievements and social competences are the penalty of specific parenting behaviors. Authoritarian and Authoritative are the two types of parenting which has its own way to develop the child emotionally and socially. Although they both have positive and negative aspect but they illustrate two different concepts of parenting.
Authoritative parenting is considered an best style which always has positive impact on child’s personality. These parents choose a way to grow their child in such a way in which they keep balance between rules and the relationship with their children. Although they setup some rules for their children and expect them to follow, but if child is unable to take by their condition so rather giving punishments, these parents prefer to listen their child first and then decide best possible way to deal with them. because they want to maintain balance between rules and relationship. Along with this authoritative parents are demanding as well as responsive in a way that they established standard rules to follow but side by side they are very much responsive to their child’s question and satisfy them. The impact of these specific behaviors can be observed in childhood as well as in future. As the authoritative parents offer support and help in academics and involve in their child’s activities, their child achieve more in academic and develop better self perception.
On the other hand, children raised by authoritarian parenting styles often have personality that differ from authoritative parenting .Because authoritarian parents tend to force the rules which they established as a standard. Unlike authoritative, their main behavior is to punish their children rather than to forgive them when they are unable to stand by their expectations. In addition these parents are highly demanding and less responsive as authoritative. They do not answer their child’s queries and make compulsory them to follow without any explanations. The ways they develop their child are suitable for them but indirectly it weakens the relationship with their children and are not able to maintain close relationship. These children tend to less socialized due to low self esteem and in future continue with the same habits and develop feelings like anger, depression, worry and less social interaction.
Conclusion can be drawn that authoritative and authoritarian show two different concept of parenting, which have positive as well as negative aspects. The clear difference between these two is the way they deal with their children. Authoritative parents prefer the relationship over rules. On the opposite, authoritarian parents leading by enforcing the rules.